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5/29/09

Dentures - Fit for a Foreigner

Do I sound like a foreigner to you? I no longer have to imagine having a foreign object in my mouth, that makes the words coming out sound like a foreign language, it's now real. I have pre-empted the denture experience with an oral appliance for my own TMJ problem - (joint over by the ear that pops when I speak). Suddenly I understand the care and handling of oral appliances, and the new found effort it takes to pronounce words.
Eating, well with my own new fangled TMJ appliance, either in or out of my mouth, the orientation of my jaw with my teeth were not coordinated to work smoothly. I lost weight because chewing food was a great and concentrated effort with each and every bite, and it took time to eat. Then the facial and neck pain that floated through during the night and days was so unexpected that I stopped adjust my head and neck constantly.
Then I thought about dentures at the prompting of my mother who grinningly said, 'so now you have some.'
'Funny, smart-ass," I remarked to myself quietly, yet she was right. I was in the "primer" stage of dentures with my TMJ appliance. So I started asking my mother all the questions I never thought I would ask about dentures?

  • Eat with them in? Yes.
  • Does food get stuck under the plate on the roof of your mouth? Yes.
  • Do you clean them at least once per day? Yes.
  • Do you still brush your teeth like before? Yes.
  • Do you notice them? Yes.
  • Do your facial bones or jaw ever hurt? Yes.
  • Do you have difficulty speaking? Yes, in the beginning and then you figure it out.
  • Would you rather not have them? No, I can chew better with them in.
  • How long have you had them? Decades.
  • Better now versus then - the model you're wearing? Depends on the dentist, the price and what they are made of.

That about did for my first "primer" stage of questions, and she liked being asked and answering. Outside of personal appearance and vanity, for now I will just keep flossing and shop for a water pick. Loaded with empathy, foreigners either will think I am deaf, with my current rounded speech or prone to lisping through life. What an education in dentures.

5/26/09

Advocate Advocates - Advanced Directive

It a document that gives you the authority to call, ask and do for the parent the things that are on the list
of health care providers.
There's a link for all states that have documentation regarding Advanced Directives: http://www.noah-
health.org/en/rights/endoflife/adforms.html
  • Execute in writing one original for the parent and a second original for you to have to walk with.
  • Execute one for yourself and share it with a special friend - caregivers get sicker faster than normal.

Here's a link for patient rights and resources: http://www.noah-health.org/en/rights/
Or google search up your own with the keywords, "Advanced Directives"

I used the NY ones, just because they look like they did their footwork, I am not from NY State or
advise your use of this site alone. It's a general information start that appears well built.

Look for:
  • Where - which state does what in each situation will / or not be different
  • Who - is listed in this document
  • What - is covered in this document
  • Advisement - get a lawyer/attorney and ask them, ask the Dept. of Aging in your state
Department of Aging in your state may have online resource, or an office that you may contact for more
information. Do it... you will have more peace of mind if something should happen.
Support your parent's right to know and understand what they are completing by signing/designating and let
them ask the questions to the attorney or the Department of Aging personnel in your location.
Don't wait - start now, and get the parent while they able, capable, and present to learn and accept these issues
over time if that's what it takes and you are the house daughter or son.